Robert Cialdini, author of Pre-Suasion, describes to Inc. president Eric Schurenberg the most important factors for influencing people. 6 Powerful Compliance Triggers Reciprocation - There is an overwhelming urge to repay debts, to do something in return when something is done for us. This deep-seat
Robert Cialdini, author of Pre-Suasion, describes to Inc. president Eric Schurenberg the most important factors for influencing people.
6 Powerful Compliance Triggers
Reciprocation - There is an overwhelming urge to repay debts, to do something in return when something is done for us. This deep-seated urge is so strong, noted palaeontologist Richard Leaky has said that it is the very essence of what it means to be human. Sociologist Alvin Gouldner points out that no society on Earth escapes the reciprocity principle.
Commitment and Consistency - We are driven to remain consistent in our attitudes, words, and actions. So, when we are led to make a commitment of some kind, to go on record or take a stand or make a decision, there is an urge to remain consistent with that original commitment later on. The key is to get the initial commitment, which can appear small, reasonable, and innocent. This commitment can not only lead to compliance via the principle of consistency, but also to further compliance for larger requests.
Social Proof - Most of us are imitators in most of what we do. We look to others for guidance, especially when we are uncertain about something. We ask, "What do others think about this? What do others feel? What do others do?" Then we act accordingly, all thanks to the power of social proof.
Liking - No matter how reasonable we may think ourselves to be, we are always more likely to say "yes" to those we know and like. We readily comply with requests from those who are similar to us and for whom we have good feelings. It's what makes refusing to buy Tupperware from a friend or relative next to impossible.
Authority - In this age of specialization, we are more prone to respond to authority than ever before. Regardless of an independent spirit, we look to experts or those we perceive to be experts to give us the answers and show us the way. Even the mere symbols of authority, such as titles and specialized clothing, are enough to trigger a response. Example: Note how seeing someone with a white smock and stethoscope instantly suggests "doctor" and makes anything that person says about medicine seem more authoritative.
Scarcity - In general, the fear of loss is more powerful than the hope of gain. By properly engaging the instinctive tendency to avoid losing something - or avoid losing the chance to possess something desirable - you can trigger a "yes" response with scarcity.
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